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Month: September 2019

Perspective Matters – It Is Because It Can Be But It Isn’t Always

Perspective Matters – It Is Because It Can Be But It Isn’t Always

I have been thinking about this for a long time as I’ve had several occasions to challenge my own perspective within the past couple of weeks. In fact, I’ve put this off as I’ve had to really focus on remembering this myself. The past week has been stressful for me. The bottom line is, perspective matters — it is because it can be but it isn’t always. Perspective Matters — Is It or Can It Be I have recently been…

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I Love Puzzles Because I Can’t Make Gravy

I Love Puzzles Because I Can’t Make Gravy

It’s True …. Kind of I do love puzzles, and I can’t make gravy. Well, I can, but not consistently. What in the world do these things have in common? How is it possible there could be a relationship between loving puzzles and making gravy? The relationship for me is that both require the right pieces or ingredients to form. I can see the overall picture, but I can’t always replicate it. Making Gravy The other night I made breakfast…

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The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Done is Bury My Child; The Second is Letting the Other Two Live

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Done is Bury My Child; The Second is Letting the Other Two Live

What’s In A Name I went back and forth on the title of this post. I’ve worked on it since Monday. I know this title is pretty raw. I alternated versions to try and soften it. In the end, I determined I wasn’t changing it. The truth is, the hardest thing I’ve ever done is bury my oldest daughter Makenzie in 2015 when she was only 22 years old. The second hardest thing I do is letting Brennan, my now…

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And Just Like That, I’m Unemployed

And Just Like That, I’m Unemployed

What? This is my public profession.  I am unemployed.   This news has not been advertised.   Only those closest to me have been aware.  However, I am now sharing this with all of you as a lesson from the life of Tonya. Life isn’t fair.  We know this.   Many have undoubtedly heard this from a very young age.   The hard fact is it’s a true statement.   Understand the seemed unfairness of it doesn’t mean life isn’t enjoyable or fun or to…

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