During this time, as many of us are isolating, social distancing, or your descriptive word of choice, life is different. We have all been forced into a place that is unfamiliar and uncomfortable. In my instance, I am now a full-time working mother, a full time stay-at-home mom and a Kindergarten teacher. Thus, compliments of Covid19, I share with you my chronicle of going crazy. As you may or may not know, I work for an advertising agency. I work…
Let me start by saying this post is going to be different from those I’ve done before. This post will be a pouring out of memory, and it is long. I will not write this blog post with any focus on Search Engine Optimization or other elements Google search looks for to “grade” blog posts. These writings were meant to be not only an outlet for me to write and share my thoughts or serve as an answer to the…
As always on New Year’s Eve, I find myself looking back over 2019. It was certainly a year of learning, and though some of the lessons were hard, the education is welcome. As it turns out, the year has been pretty good. In saying that’s a wrap for 2019, I am simply welcoming 2020. A Year of Change Without doubt, the most defining moment of 2019 was losing my job. It was a harsh reality that came mid-year and created…
I have been thinking about this for a long time as I’ve had several occasions to challenge my own perspective within the past couple of weeks. In fact, I’ve put this off as I’ve had to really focus on remembering this myself. The past week has been stressful for me. The bottom line is, perspective matters — it is because it can be but it isn’t always. Perspective Matters — Is It or Can It Be I have recently been…
It’s True …. Kind of I do love puzzles, and I can’t make gravy. Well, I can, but not consistently. What in the world do these things have in common? How is it possible there could be a relationship between loving puzzles and making gravy? The relationship for me is that both require the right pieces or ingredients to form. I can see the overall picture, but I can’t always replicate it. Making Gravy The other night I made breakfast…
What’s In A Name I went back and forth on the title of this post. I’ve worked on it since Monday. I know this title is pretty raw. I alternated versions to try and soften it. In the end, I determined I wasn’t changing it. The truth is, the hardest thing I’ve ever done is bury my oldest daughter Makenzie in 2015 when she was only 22 years old. The second hardest thing I do is letting Brennan, my now…
What? This is my public profession. I am unemployed. This news has not been advertised. Only those closest to me have been aware. However, I am now sharing this with all of you as a lesson from the life of Tonya. Life isn’t fair. We know this. Many have undoubtedly heard this from a very young age. The hard fact is it’s a true statement. Understand the seemed unfairness of it doesn’t mean life isn’t enjoyable or fun or to…
And now, when you flush the toilet the shower comes on! Not really, but I probably need an electrician and a plumber at this point. This is a “bonus” post because today was one of those days that you just have to laugh at yourself. About three months ago, I decided I was going to paint my bathroom. My very, very small bathroom. I’ve lived in my home for 12 years, and it’s been on my “to-do” list since I…
A NEW ADVENTURE This is a new adventure. One I will learn about as I go. I will make mistakes, learn from them, and forge on. Welcome to to my blog. This is my last second chance at writing. For many years, I have been told repeatedly that I should write. It should not come as a surprise to anyone who knows me that I like to write. In fact, I have written since I was in my teens. I…
